just wanted to share a lesson I learned today..
NEVER EVER set the bar too high for other people to judge … ‘coz if you do then you have no going back !
DON’T EVER be too nice to people. You can be nice or polite or whatever.. but always leave a distance/gap.
If you are too nice, then they will always always always expect you to be like that. You are never allowed to have a “down” day. That’s just not acceptable. And you will end up hearing comments like “how come you are not that nice like before” .. lol… “hello!!! can’t i have a bad day??” …
ya.. so … never be extra polite or extra nice to anyone… just be normal always… so you can have a bad day once in a while and go unnoticed by other people without being judged.
scott
January 26, 2010 at 8:42 pm
Ya u r rt. A nice guy has to prove himself on every instance but nothn is evr expected frm a bad guy. Btw this urge to please evryone around, reminds me of “Monica Geller” from F.R.I.E.N.D.S
Annu
February 3, 2010 at 4:40 pm
Why would you wnat to be somebody that you are not? If you are always yourself, I think it will be all fine. There will no question of any ‘bars’. It will be in some way cheating yourself and others if you are acting nice. Then again, everything is relative
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Annu
February 3, 2010 at 4:48 pm
http://www.gocomics.com/calvinandhobbes/2010/01/26/
Annu
February 3, 2010 at 4:53 pm
http://www.gocomics.com/calvinandhobbes/2010/01/26/
Annu
February 3, 2010 at 5:04 pm
one more
…http://www.gocomics.com/calvinandhobbes/2010/01/24/
Remya
February 3, 2010 at 8:22 pm
well I wasn’t acting & i don’t… I’ve always been very myself & very nice to “these” people not bcoz I’ve to but because I like them… I was just saying I don’t appreciate comments like “u changed… or how come u r like this now”, when I’m just having a bad day or couple of bad days
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btw the grade cartoon was funny
Annu
February 4, 2010 at 5:54 pm